week 5

I recently had a disagreement with a coworker.   Our classrooms are assigned a lap top care that is to be shared equally.  The other teacher keeps the cart 3/4 of the day and my students were barely getting time.  In reflection I should of used NVC instead of being so obstinate about my point.
The principles of NVC positively effect communication in many ways.  Compassion in understanding where another person is coming from.  When the principles of NVC are practiced the outcome is usually one of collaboration.   There are no accusations or any behavior that would put the other party on the defensive.  Effective communication is all about honesty, sharing, listening and empathy.  When an individual feels that they are being heard there defenses are lowered and they are able to express their thoughts and in turn become more responsive to the other parties thoughts and feelings. 
The 3 R's of communication serves as a model on how to approach our daily interactions.   They are reflect, respect and request.  When you reflect you are figuring out what you are seeking, what is it you want.  Respect is envisioning how you can meet your need while still respecting the other party.  Request is all about collaboration.  Requesting a shared moment; collaboration not demanded immediate compliance.  

 I learned a lot about effective communication and the importance of fostering an aura of compassion.  These principles will help me to be a better communicator and overall teacher.