Sunday, January 27, 2013

week 3 communication


Communication is described as the process through which the social fabric of relationship are created and maintained.  Communication is intrinsically embedded in all living creatures.  In order to exist in any society the basic function of expressing and understanding is paramount.  Learning how to express ones needs in a positive way is one of the most important life lessons.   Communication is at the heart of almost everything from the classroom to the boardroom.   I work in a middle school that is very culturally diverse.  I have always intrinsically implemented the platinum rule as my communication style.  The platinum rule in communication basically says that instead of behaving the way you feel would be effective, exhibit empathy and interact mirroring behavior that resonates with the other participants.  In reflection I feel I approach most people the same way.  Open and curious as to who they are and what their opinions are.  The only difference could possibly be the ages of the parties I am to communicate with. 



Sunday, January 13, 2013

Communication and Collaboration Week 1

Communication is intrinsically embedded in all living creatures.  In order to exist in any society the basic function of expressing and understanding is paramount.  Learning how to express ones needs in a positive way is one of the most important life lessons.   Communication is at the heart of almost everything from the classroom to the boardroom.  I have always considered myself a good communicator but after watching my brother give a lecture I realized that I was just an amateur.  Effective communication is all about engagement.  It is allowing others to process your thoughts while not being creatively stifled.  This is what my brother is able to establish.  His communication style is respectful, informative and unbiased.  The level of ease that he exudes allows others to really listen to what he is saying and cross examine with the same level of respect.  He has done amazingly well in his professional life do to his effective communication skills.